Follow Your Fear: The Unexpected Path to Courage
by Trisha J.
Fear often gets a bad rap. We’re told to conquer it, push through it, or pretend it doesn’t exist. Fear can make us fight. It can make us freeze in our tracks. It can make us run and hide. It can even stop us from doing what we know, deep down, is the best thing we can do to support our growth. But what if fear isn’t the enemy? What if, instead of avoiding it, we leaned into it and let it show us the way?
Amelia Earhart once said, “Use your fear, it can take you to the place where you store your courage.” That’s not just a poetic turn of phrase; it’s a call to action. Fear is often the doorway to something greater—our courage, resilience, and deepest truths. The problem is, most of us spend so much time trying to outrun fear that we never stop to see what fear is trying to teach us.
Fear isn’t just a reaction; it’s a signal. It tells us where we feel vulnerable, where we doubt ourselves, and where we have room to grow. If we listen closely, fear can become a guide instead of an obstacle.Think about a time you felt scared to take a leap—maybe leaving a job, speaking your truth, starting something new. That fear wasn’t just a warning; it was also a sign that you were on the edge of something important. Courage isn’t the absence of fear; it’s what happens when you move forward despite fear.
We don’t magically become brave. Courage is built in the moments when we choose to walk through our fear instead of away from it. Every time we use fear as a tool for growth, we add to our reservoir of courage. We realize that we’ve faced hard things before and survived. We learn that fear doesn’t have to paralyze us—it can actually propel us.
So, how do we actually use our fear?
- Name It. Get clear on what you’re afraid of. Sometimes, just saying it out loud takes away some of its power. Sometimes sharing it with another person takes away even more of its power.
- Question It. Ask yourself: Is this fear protecting me, or is it keeping me stuck? Not all fear is bad, but not all of it is necessary either.
- Shift Your Perspective. Instead of seeing fear as a stop sign, view it as a flashlight pointing to where you need to grow.
- Take One Step. Courage isn’t about massive leaps. It’s built one small, deliberate action at a time. Choose one thing you can do today that moves you toward what scares you.
- Look Back. Remind yourself of past moments when you felt fear but kept going anyway. Let those victories remind you that you are stronger than your doubts.
Fear, when harnessed, can be used as fuel. It sharpens us, forces us to grow, and shows us what we care about most. When we use fear as fuel, instead of running from it, we take back our power. We reclaim the parts of ourselves that have been buried under hesitation and self-doubt.This isn’t about being fearless—it’s about being brave enough. Brave enough to stand in our truth. Brave enough to use our voices, even when remaining silent seems easier. Brave enough to show up fully and authentically, even when our hands shake, our voices tremble and hiding in plain sight seems like the easier path.So the next time fear rises up, don’t push it away. Follow it. Let it take you to the place where you store your courage. And then—be brave enough to use it.
